Angry. Selfish or not?

[Enigma]

i totally forgot i made this post, until STR brought it up on aim. i read everyone's input and I appreciate it, even Paulehhh's. lol. he didn't make me quit smoking ciggs. but i knew he didn't like it, so i took the initiative and quit on my own. i don't know how easy or hard it is to stop smoking pot, but i think quitting ciggs is harder.

i also haven't forbidden him from smoking pot. i just don't want it around my daughter. if he slips up every couple of months, i'm going to be angry. but i'm not going to end the relationship with him. he loves me and my daughter and he does a lot for us.

i started the relationship with him knowing full well he was a smoker. and i didn't ask him to stop until my daughter and i moved in with him. that's when it would have been around her and would have impacted her. he told me he expected me to ask him to quit and because we're always so broke he didn't mind that i asked.

that being said, he felt awful about smoking that one day. he hasn't smoked since and he said he's not going to smoke. and he also said if his friends come over he's going to make it clear that pot is not welcome here because of my daughter, who he wants to adopt as his own.

so, that being said, i know now that i wasn't being selfish. i was just angry that he broke a promise he made to me to quit. and so far he's doing great. :)