Angry. Selfish or not?

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I was about to say you were wrong, but I would say i'm about 50/50..or 75/25 on your side. Only because he made you stop smoking, so, you did and he should have the same respect for you to do the same. I understand why you're angry, but really you shouldn't be for too long. I think it should show you that at least he is making an effort, 3 months is a long time to go without out of the blue. I agree that pot is NOT addictive, I myself have quit twice, both times for a year. The only reason I do it now is because I am out on my own, we can afford what we can afford, and I dunno, I like to smoke weed. Call me a bad guy. I do not EVER smoke around my son. Neither pot or cigarettes. I never let smoking get in the way of taking care of my family, etc. I guess it all depends on the guy, you should have a pretty firm grasp on what he is like. It all depends on where his priorities lay. Is he good to you? Is he good to your child? Do you see him as a provider or a slacker? Just look at the big picture...because the least you should worry about is him smokin' a bowl or two every couple months or so. I don't know your experience with weed, but it really isn't that bad, people could get into more shit being a drunk than smoking every couple months.